Family Member Spotlight- LOGAN

LOGAN

Logan is 10 years old and in 5th grade. He is a sweet, loving boy with a very tender heart. He wants to make people around him happy and wants to be close and cuddle with Mom and Dad as often as he can. He also has a very sweet love for his Savior.

He loves animals, especially baby animals and, his favorite, cats! 

This kid has an appetite and loves eating sushi, seafood, especially shrimp and crab and nachos! 

Logan loves to play baseball. The moments he gets to spend watching BYU football with his dad are really special to him. He also enjoys Muay Thai, Jiu Jitsu and hip hop.

He loves to learn and especially enjoys science. He's a really smart kid and he loves building, inventing and creating things. He just loves learning how things work.

He spends his free time playing games like Minecraft, playing with his Legos and likes engineering-type hobbies. He also loves to try new things and seems to have no fear, whether it's rides, haunted houses, climbing, you name it! One thing that seems to run in the Miller blood is a love for race cars! 




Sitting in Grandpa Jim's race car!








Although he can be pretty shy, he loves making friends with anyone interested. He also really loves spending time with his cousins. He can be a pretty amazing brother, too.

When I had brought up having a 4th child in the past, Logan was not very interested. I don't think he was very thrilled at the idea of having one more little sibling getting into his stuff. He was the one kid I was a little nervous to tell when we felt we were supposed to adopt to complete our family. Something very special happened, though! When we told our kids, Logan was the one that could NOT STOP SMILING! He was so giddy and he kept jumping up and down! It was the cutest thing. He prays every day to find his baby sister and he has said how much he loves her already. 

Family Member Spotlight- JAX

JAX

Jax is 3 years old and has non-stop energy. He likes everything from drawing on the couch with a marker to playing video games with his brother. 

He can be a little bit shy and clingy at times, but if he gets to know you or thinks you're pretty awesome from the get-go, he hates to leave you. He will often tell people he cares about, "I lost you!", or "you lost me!" if they go somewhere and come back. He is especially close to Mommy and loves spending his days with her.

Here he is at the beach, flirting it up

with the cutest girl he could find.

He would spend all day in the backyard digging, running through sprinklers and jumping on the trampoline if we let him. In the winter, it's hard to keep him in because he loves being out in the snow!

Like most little boys, Jax loves dinosaurs, trains, race cars and monster trucks. He loves racing his cars pretty much anywhere- from one side of the tub to the other, around the table, all across the house.

He hates when his siblings leave for school in the morning, but excitedly greets them every day when they come home! Even though he's much younger than his older brother and sister, he will bravely protect them if he feels like they are being treated unfairly. 

In this picture, he saw Roxie coming home from school and ran right into her arms!

Jax loves babies, even baby animals. He will often say things like "Ohh!! So cute! So little!" When he sees a picture of a little baby, he will ask if it's his little sister. He will repeatedly do things to show he's ready to be a "big brother" that he didn't do or like to do before, like help pick up or go right to bed at night. He is so ready to be have his little buddy to love, protect and play with! He's been so excited, he told me he had a something to tell the baby, so I wrote it down for him and took this picture!

Family Member Spotlight- BEN

BEN

While Amber is a shy extrovert, Ben is more of an outgoing introvert. He loves people and loves to connect on a deep emotional level. People who know him well and people who have listened to him speak or teach often refer to him as being extremely authentic and sincere and does his best to be as transparent as possible with his feelings, struggles and fears. Much of his life is dedicated to helping other people realize their potential or overcome their personal struggles. He uses many of the skills he has learned while being an instructor for the Army, a chaplain assistance in the Army and a employee at therapeutic youth facilities to help him to his current full-time job as a marketing and sales director for his family's Custom Home Building Company. Well he is fiercely passionate about caring for people, he can sometimes overwhelm himself and need time to recharge emotionally. 

Ben spent several years trying to come to grips with his self-image and learn how to accept all the silly, odd and unique things about him that make him special. He is a self-proclaimed geek and nerd, but is also passionate about sports and other high testosterone activities. He loves going out to movies or playing online video games with his friends. 

He was born and Salem, Oregon and moved around multiple times before he finally settled down in Utah at the age of 18. While he lived in Washington, Oregon, California and Utah as a child, the majority of his life was spent between Oregon and Utah. 

After graduating high school and joining the Army, then has traveled across the country and across the world. He has served two deployments to Kosovo and Iraq. He has been in the Army since 1998 and considers it one of the most important decisions he ever made. In addition to being in the Army and doing marketing and sales, he also runs a small life coaching practice. He has a Facebook page where he makes videos to help people overcome interpersonal issues and other related topics.









As a husband, he is completely dedicated to his wife, Amber, and does everything he can to help her feel loved and empowered. He loves and embraces everything unique and quirky about her. He would happily leave the world behind and take him and his family to an isolated place and live contently forever.








He does his best to be a good father to his children. Growing up with different step parents and several broken homes has giving him a somewhat difficult but unique perspective. He does the best he can to learn from the mistakes of his parents and tries to connect deeply with his children to help them understand the values that he professes. While he has several important responsibilities, he understands that being a parent is the most far-reaching effect he can have in this life.  Adoption was something he'd always had in mind, but it wasn't until recently that he knew it was more than just something he felt like he should do. He feels like this adoption process is more than just expanding his family and bringing another child into the family. He feels like it is what the Lord needs him and his family to do. Knowing this makes it very easy to put his personal reservations and fears aside and trust in the Lord and want to do all he can to provide for this child and give her the best life possible.

Family Member Spotlight- AMBER

AMBER

We refer to Amber as a shy extrovert, because she struggles with social anxiety but she loves being around people and having fun. It's difficult for her to talk to people she doesn't know well, but she has hard time being quiet around people she loves and can get a little crazy. It can be hard for her to be serious because she loves to laugh and joke around. She would probably be happy to go out and do something exciting every day if she had the opportunity. She loves to go on "adventures" and make all the amazing memories she can.

 She really loves the peace she feels being in nature. She also enjoys meditating all the stress away and feeling more in tune with herself. She dreams of having a meditation/ prayer room when they build a house in the future.

She also LOVES games. It's something she did with her family ever since she was little and enjoys the bonding time, whether it's shooting her husband in Call of Duty, playing Jenga with the kids or Tripoly with her siblings and parents. She also loves hosting game nights with friends and neighbors.

Amber is a very loving, passionate person. This can be a great thing, but it can also cause her to get her feelings hurt easily. She has a lot of empathy and she is fiercely loyal to those she loves and is very protective of people and even animals. She has a strong desire for things to be peaceful. She tries hard to see all sides of the story and calm tense situations, even those she isn't directly involved in. She just wants everyone to be happy. She loves doing things to brighten someone's day.



She loves to research and plan everything from get-togethers, vacations, parties and even things like new schedules and parenting techniques. She's always trying to find a better way to do things, but sometimes her ideas are probably a little bigger than they should be!

(One year, she did about 30 Disney movie nights, complete with themed dinners, to prepare them for their trip to Disneyland. It was a little crazy, but SO fun and special for the kids!)



After she got married, she realized she had a nerdy side she never knew about. After trying to get her husband to sell his comic books for years, she ended up convincing him to go to San Diego Comic Con and meeting Stan Lee. She particularly loves X-Men and has a Han Solo cosplay.



She lived in Los Angeles county during her teen years and is now an avid Dodgers fan.

She loves all things sparkly. Her mom and sister always thought she would grow out of it when she was little but she never did! 😜

She loves Olympic lifting and Crossfit. Almost 2 years ago, she decided to try Muay Thai and fell in love with it. She also enjoys watching UFC fights.


She runs an eBay shop from home, which is great because she gets to set her own hours and can work while her kids play right next to her.

She absolutely loves being an Army wife. When Ben was deployed, they actually reunited stronger than they had ever been!

Amber really loves what being a parent has done for her. She could not wait to grow up and be a mom. She always thought she would have like 10 biological and 4 adopted kids, but soon realized she did not have that kind of energy! She absolutely loves the magic that her children bring into her life and is constantly trying to find more ways to make their childhood feel more magical. She was raised where every holiday was a big deal. She has passed that magic and excitement down to her kids and it's seriously the best thing in her world!